your never gonna believe this, but after getting it all sorted and a full version of Kerio installed, i moved the laptop over to the sofa, and then when i booted it back up again, the darn thing doesn't connect again. even when i turn the firewall off. all of the setting sare the same as far i know, i haven't changed any since boot up,
when you reafd this hengis, if that offer of skype help is still up for grabs then please contact me as soon as you are available, what makes it worse is that we achieved a connection and then a great big grin appeared on her face, and then none at all, talk about an anti-climax
BTW, the better half has already asked me to give her the address so she can sign up here, she is very keen to learn about comps.