i got this from the event log but i dont think it has anything to do with RD. it was in aplication section. I do not have anything in the security section
Event log section:
A provider, OffProv12, has been registered in the WMI namespace, Root\MSAPPS12, to use the LocalSystem account. This account is privileged and the provider may cause a security violation if it does not correctly impersonate user requests.
I also tried your sugestion about disabling all firewalls i disabled the lot and it still wouldn't work

I also did the ping from someone elses machine and it came back successful.
I obtain my IP adress by using an internet searcher that shows me what it is at the time this seems to match to what my router sais, i also have a dyndns domain that i use also.
Thanks for your help so far, it's very much apreciated.
wilf