ha... yeah you're right! I found a netgear card at my friends house, downloaded the driver, installed it and presto it worked like a charm!
Thanks for trying to help, it was very kind of you to go to all that effort.
I have another problem which I may as well vent seeing as how we're all here lol; My logoff button has disappeared and I now need to press ctrl + alt + del to access my password screen. I can't think what's caused this and system restore doesnt show that i've installed anything. do you know how i might get it back?
cheers
Nik