Aha!!
Sometimes the answers right there in front of one but because it's so obvious, it's not seen! :banghead:
OK ... here's what I finally did
1. from
[HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows\Curr entVersion\Explorer\
Desktop\NameSpace] delete the entry
{00020D75-0000-0000-C000-000000000046} This removes the "Inbox" from the desktop.
2. Go to c:\program\windows messaging folder and delete the folder. This removes the program.
3. Run a registry repair program (I have Registry Mechanic) to get rid of any issues as a result of (2) above.
Sorry I didn't find that folder earlier - and that I put everyone to all this trouble.
Never-the-less, I learned from all you.
Thank You - Consider this problem solved.