When I try to join an online game in company of heroes I can't. I click on the game and it appears but the Join Now button is faded and I ca't click. Why can't I???

What patch are you now on 2.301 ? I had major major problems with this game as well . Got there in the end but by unistalling everything COH/OF and using O/F only and patching up .

Yes i am on patch 2.301. I do not have opposing fronts

So you must of registered then , strange i did have problems with the patches and logging on with this game , other than installing again and patching up try relic forums as they specialize with these problems or coh.zone . I hope you get to play .