1. For SLI identical cards are required, it will only work this way because the load needs to be shared evenly
2. This question is now redundant
3. Up to 90%
But just thought i should be safe, but from what i can find these mother boards support neither SLi nor Crossfire, and i dont think your video card does either, those boards need 2 PCI-e x16 ports, these mobos only have one, but if you can afford it, getting an 8 series card would probably increase performance by more that 4 times, and if you got a high end one then by more than 8, but more to the point, going SLi with those cards isnt worth it, just get a new, more powerful card, hope this helps, if you would like a recomendation on a replacement card then you may want to give details about your upgrade budget
EDIT: forgot to mention, if you are upgrading to a faster card, almost all cards on the market today require a lot extra power so you should check that you
PSU is up for the job