Hey bud,
Actually, the CPU and motherboard are compatible, I triple checked with different sites, and the 9850 is the new version with the B3 stepping, so it's actually the "fixed" version of the phenom line.
However, since you're saying everything is powering up but it's not loading up the BIOS, then it sounds like it's a CPU problem. If you have another CPU you can drop into it, do so, but I'm fairly certain it's the CPU.
Also, you don't *have* to RAID SATA drives, you can run them as single drives
